Bao Dabao's mother-in-law has this feeling. Every time she finishes playing with the toy, the baby will throw the toy into the room. When I see the room, the treasure is always full of despair.
However, for finishing toys, babies usually have little interest. Do you know how to cultivate good habits for babies to organize their own toys?
Many people think that packing up toys seems to be a trivial matter! But in the long run, this thing will bring a lot of benefits.
Let the children organize the benefits of the toy
1. Let the children clean up their toys and play only one toy at a time, which can improve their self-control ability;
2. By packing up the toys by yourself, the child knows what to do first, what to do first, distinguishes the order, and makes things more organized;
3. The “heavy duty” of the toy is accepted by the child. When the child realizes the trust of the father and mother, the sense of responsibility will naturally increase;
4, the child can only understand the hard work of packing up the toys when the children have cleaned up the toys, so they cherish the labor results of themselves and others.
Mr. Ye Shengtao, an educator, once said: "Good habits have been developed and used for a lifetime; bad habits have been developed, and it is not easy to change it for a lifetime. It is not easy to change the habits of children." Let them benefit for the rest of their lives.
How to make children develop the habit of sorting toys?
1. Parents lead by example
Imitation is the age characteristic of young children, but they are more willing to imitate people who are close to and like themselves, so parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. Many times, a parent's own inadvertent action will make the child become an imitation object. Therefore, when the child is still unable to do it himself, the parents should pack the toys in front of the child and explain to the child why they should do so.
At the same time, parents should pay attention to clean up the items around them, keep the whole family environment clean and tidy, and seduce the children with their ears.
2, follow the step by step
If the child does not have the habit of packing up the toys, parents must keep from simplification to difficulty, from coarse to fine, from big to small, and avoid rushing for success. Let the children slowly find the sense of accomplishment and self-confidence in the toys, let the children are willing and willing to clean up the toys themselves.
3, do a good job of toy classification
Parents can instruct children to classify toys according to their preferences (for example, by color, by type, by size).
When finishing the first time, parents can accompany them to encourage them. They can be played like a classified game. Children's classification errors can be corrected in time. When they are finished, the children will form a fixed pattern in their consciousness, knowing that these toys belong to a set of types. Should be packed together, or those larger dolls should be put together. It is not difficult to develop habits afterwards.
4. Control the amount of toys
The children like to pour out all the toys, play with them, play like that, instead of just calming down and playing only one toy. This also led to the amount of toys being packed too much. Some children faced this mess. Even if they felt worried and sorry inside, they would be full of fear of rearrangement and eventually instinctively avoided.
Therefore, parents should clearly define the rules for playing toys: "You can only take a small amount at a time, and you want to play other things. You can send other toys before you can send them back."
5. Inject "life" into the toy
In the world of children, toys are alive. They will “talk” and “sing” with toys, so parents can inject “life” into toys.
Mom and Dad can say to the baby: "You have a home, that toy also has a home. Do you want your toy to have a home that is as warm as you?" At this time, you can use the storage box as a toy home and let the child Understand that "I am going home, the toy has to go home."
First of all, the baby should be allowed to find a fixed "home" for the toy, which can not only cultivate the child's neat habit, but also prompt him to return the toy to the original place. Prepare some storage boxes with your child, put them on the text or picture labels, and classify them to the toys.
6, as a toy, as a game
If you want to mobilize your baby's enthusiasm and interest in cleaning up toys, you can also use the form of the game! You can say to your baby: "Mom and baby come to play a game, see who is the fastest to bring the toy home?" At this time, the child will actively pack the toys.
7, the educational philosophy must be consistent
Many families will have such a situation: the children are picking up toys, grandmothers or other elders have come to help; they are distressed by the children, and they are not allowed to do anything they can. This is actually very unfavorable for children to grow up.
The whole family atmosphere and educational philosophy can't be agreed, which will make children appear inconsistent behavior, and it is not conducive to building a healthy personality for children.
8, have enough patience
We always want our children to eat a fat man. In fact, it takes a long period of time to change bad habits. Parents cannot do it overnight. This requires patient guidance and constant demonstration.
In the process of cultivating habits, parents must not criticize the accusation, give the child enough time and patience; praise the child and encourage him when he sees the child's progress.